...Yes, Williston is a private school. I went there more out of family tradition than anything else. My grades never reflected prodigy status [unlike my brother's], although they were something to be proud of in Elementary School. In 6th grade I started at the newly built public middle school, a mixing ground of kids from all over my hometown. I was among 1 of 3 Mormon kids in the entire school and was mercilessly ridiculed for being different. I had gotten used to "four-eyes" comments since the second grade, but the thing that got under my skin the most was people mocking my name. I can joke about it now [sort of], but the nickname "Dotty Potty" really stuck and made my Elementary days pretty rough [don't laugh]. Not to mention I was going through puberty and trying to figure out what ratio of me was tom-boy versus girly-girl. Talk about an identity crisis. So when my parents approached me about starting anew at Williston [7th thru 12th grade] I jumped on board. I remember taking the tests to see if you were smart enough, dressing up for tours, interviews, and finally taking the dreaded math exam to see which class you would be placed in. I was so nervous, but so excited to start over.
6 years later I walked down that isle with my 100 or so classmates in my '08 class clapping for me. It had been a whirlwind. I had made and sadly lost multiple friends including my high school sweetheart of 3+ years, fallen on and off and then back on my religious band-wagon, experimented with um, stuff, traveled abroad, participated in a slew of sports that I otherwise never would have played including ice-hockey and crew [rowing], and towards the end, got fully absorbed in my artwork. It was kind of a mess. I've driven myself crazy with the thought of how I would be different had I chosen to stay in Public School. It's useless to speculate such things, so I try and steer clear.
The whole point of this is that I've been reflecting on high school recently, and imagined what I would say to my fellow peers IF I were going to my reunion this year. What would I have to boast about? What have I done? Where have I gone? How have I changed? I've frequently belittled my own post-grad experiences simply because I knew they weren't "normal." I dropped out my first year of college. Oh yeah, and that college was UVU. Not Dartmouth, Penn, Harvard, BC, BU, Cornell, Stanford, Yale, not even UMass. I not only went to a no-name school, but I also dropped out after my first semester! How lame is that?! Pretty lame. But how much MORE lame is doing something that you dread and hate for 4 years so that you can be stuck in career that you dread and hate for the rest of your life? Yes, I'll rationalize the hell out of my personal life choices until I feel better about them...but then I actually wrote this list and I instantly saw the light:
What I've Done in the Last 5 Years:
- Finished Cosmetology and Aesthetics School, got my licenses
- Got married
- Ran a marathon
- Built, bought, and sold a house - for profit!
- traveled to Costa Rica, Bermuda, and Mexico (most notably spending significant time in Costa Rica...see Jan-Feb entries of this blog)
- Became raw vegan and completely changed my lifestyle
- Re-enrolled in school to become a life coach/nutritionist
- Started this blog and am working on my website
- Worked 4 different jobs that were instrumental is pushing me in the right direction
- Currently working on an organic vegetable farm that feeds over 400 local families weekly...and loving it!
Oh, and lets not forget...I moved across the country to the unfamiliar territory of Utah! Those are just some of the highlights from the last 5 years. I think the most note-worthy thing is that I found and am going after what I am passionate about. So maybe I don't have a fancy Ivy-League diploma. I still have my dignity, direction, and drive. I'll see all you Willy Peeps in another 5 years!











